Sexting is a bit of an art form. And while you don’t necessarily have to be a poet or wordsmith to effectively sext someone, you should at least familiarize yourself with the basics: what to say, how to say it, and whether or not you should include a cat emoji. (The answer is no. Always no).
But unfortunately, there’s no exact rule book for those “basics.” It really comes down to figuring out what turns you on the most with your partner (since, hi, that’s the purpose of sexting). Is it talking about a fantasy of yours via text? Discussing what you’re going to do to your partner later that night? Sending audio messages? The world is kind of your oyster, my friend.
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So to help you get started in figuring out your ~sexting speed~, we’ve rounded up a list of 36 sexting examples for inspo. If any of them resonate with you, put the examples to use by tailoring ‘em to you and your partner.
Full permission to copy/paste any of these lines below. Trust, the fun is only yet to come. (Pun absolutely intended).
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23. This dreamboat
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24. Hello to only this hot, work-day fantasy
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25. The texter that knows brevity is a must
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26. Some messages that’ll make you go “yessss, please.”
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27. Shower is foreplay only inspo
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28. The person who is absolutely marriage material
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29. This woman knows WHAT IS UP
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30. The person who wants to reassure you through everything
31. The person who isn’t sure if they’ll do all the things they mention in the sext, but just want to give you a heads up
32. The author who would like to write a sexy—yet, very serious—novel at some point, but sexting is good for now
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33. The traditional sexts
34. Specifics on how to masturbate, which is actually low-key hot?
35. The Emoji sexter
36. The basic sexter who has put a lot of time and energy into planning
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